Blaming can be a bad habit. It is so much easier to write off circumstances as out of our control. If we believe that, then we don’t have to do anything to make that circumstance better. We don’t have to be responsible then, do we?
I liked how Kyle associated vulnerability with an internal locus of control. We have to be vulnerable enough to admit when we fall short and when we need to improve a situation. This gave me a lot of food for thought. Thank you, Kyle!