Being Watched

Spear 3845 Being Watched

Cartoon of a man a man and woman in a pew. A boy stares at them. The man says, “Do you ever get the feeling you’re being watched?

I drew this for the February, 2012 CHOGNews.

Privacy is an issue that keeps coming up thanks to the Internet, Facebook, Apple and Google. People fret because they’re concerned someone out there knows way too much about what brand of bread you buy or how often you do (or don’t) brush your teeth.

In some ways,  lack of privacy can be good. It can help you when you have publicly declared you are going to lose weight and a mountain-sized hot fudge sundae calls your name. It can help when you know you shouldn’t be doing such and such and you realize it’s a bad idea when little eyes are watching.

A lack of privacy can be good to knock the hypocrisy right out of you. It can be especially good to know the next generation is watching you and are taking notes.  Don’t do in the dark what you wouldn’t do in the day!

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Can You be Popular?

Spear 3848 Can You be Popular?

Cartoon of a girl with a can of tuna. She is surrounded by cats. The girl says, “Popularity is easy. All you need is a can of tuna.”

How can someone be popular? Why is it some people always have a flock of admiring fans around them? Some people have charisma. Others have money, skills and a winning smile that seem to flock people around them like cats to a can of tuna. I can’t control whether I get the red carpet treatment, but there are a few things that I’ve learned will help.

Be Generous

It doesn’t matter if you have much or a little. I’ve seen rich people who were selfish and poor people who were generous. Guess which ones were more popular? Generosity with your time, resources and compliments always bring people your way.

Smile a little

So often, I forget to smile. Yet when I do that simple thing, it’s amazing how people react to it. It’s another thing to be generous with. We all search for a pleasant look and a friendly face.

Forget About It!

Whenever I’ve fretted over what people thought of me, I’ve made myself so nervous I didn’t want to be around me! It’s one of those paradoxes of life. If I fret about being popular, I turn people away. When you relax and just be yourself, people will begin to relax around you too.

I drew this cartoon for Illustration Friday. This week’s theme is “popularity.”

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