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What’s the big deal about discretion?

Cartoon of two women. One looks like a pig and has a gold ring in her nose. The caption says, "I don't get it. I thought the jewelry would get me tons of dates."

Proverbs 11:22 paints a picture. It’s imagery we use today without thinking about the verse. Who would want to put a gold ring in a pig’s snout anyway? Would anybody waste a piece of jewelry on a hog?

A beautiful woman who lacks discretion is like a gold ring in a pig’s snout.

Proverbs 11:22 (NLT)

When I drew this cartoon, I quoted the New International Reader’s Version. That translation uses “no sense.” Discretion adds quite a bit of meaning. It means to use good judgment and to speak in such a way as to not cause offense or reveal sensitive information.

We live in an age where discretion seems to be lacking.

  • Celebrities broadcast their dirty little secrets
  • Social media causes people to broadcast the most trivial parts of their private lives
  • Politicians weaponize words to make rival parties the enemy

Discretion’s challenge

Discretion calls all of us to use our better judgment. That can be difficult when we are rushed to make a quick comment or when we’re tempted to say something flippant.

However, it could keep many people out of trouble. How many times have you said something only to wish you could take it back? Yes, me too. Discretion can keep us from saying something that we will come to regret. It can help us keep our friendships and establish goodwill.

What if discretion came in vogue once again? What would that look like?

  • Celebrities could exchange TMI for respect
  • We could use social media to inspire and encourage others
  • Politicians could learn to compromise again and get something done

I know. It’s dreamy, pie-in-the-sky thinking. Still, the world would look and feel much better if more people used some discretion. At the very least, it could help a few more single people get some dates without a gold ring in the snout.

Cartoon of two women. One looks like a pig and has a gold ring in her nose. The caption says, "I don't get it. I thought the jewelry would get me tons of dates."
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The Hidden Dangers of Adult Coloring Books

Cartoon of a teacher talking to a volunteer while kids run amuck. The Teacher says, "I need our adult volunteers to stop coloring when the kids have stopped."
Published in "K! Kidzmatter Magazine."

It can be tough finding the perfect volunteer for a classroom. It needs to be someone who loves to be with children, but works well with the adults too. They need to have childlike qualities without be childish. They need to have fun with the kids without losing focus of the lesson. It can be too easy to veer off course.

When I drew this cartoon, I thought of the adult coloring book craze that began around 2015. Grown-ups were buying and using coloring books with intricate designs as a form of relaxation and meditation. I looked at some of the books and thought this would be too complex for the average child to color.

I could imagine a child going off to do their own thing while a parent stayed mesmerized for hours, working on their coloring page. When they came to, they would wonder where their little one went off to and why was the front door wide open. It could become a dangerous activity indeed!

Before you know it, there would be public service announcements imploring parents and teachers to practice safe coloring book hygiene. Maybe that’s why the adult coloring book craze died off after a couple of years.

If you are a parent, teacher or children’s worker, be aware and don’t let the coloring book trap get you. When the kids stop coloring, you do the same. It will be a much safer world if we follow that simple rule.

Of course, who am I to talk? I’ve been having fun coloring my own artwork for years! My kids survived, but it’s probably caused a few of the classrooms I’ve led to run amuck.

Cartoon of a teacher talking to a volunteer while kids run amuck. The Teacher says, "I need our adult volunteers to stop coloring when the kids have stopped."
Published in “K! Kidzmatter Magazine.”
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Can’t Fool Me!


Cartoon of a boy with a halo. a girl says, “I’m your sister. You can’t fool me!”

The people that love us most are the ones that rarely let us get away with faking it. I tried several times as a kid to get away with a little infraction only to have my siblings blow a whistle on me.

Now that I look back on it, that was a good thing. Too many of us try to get away with things we know in our heart we should never attempt. It can be something moral or a goal you want to attempt, but just find it hard to get started.

If you’re having trouble getting started today, or quitting a bad habit, make an effort to find an accountability partner. Many times, the best accountability partners are the ones that love you the most. They know when you are telling the truth and when your halo is a little crooked.

At the start, you may find it annoying to be called on your little game, but that is just what we need. We all need someone to be honest enough with ourselves to point out the halo is not matching with your attitude.