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April 11, 1965: Why I Am Grateful to Be Alive

Fifty-five years ago, it was a balmy Palm Sunday in Indiana. My mother was five months pregnant with me. It was evening and even though it was stormy, they were getting ready to go to church.

My grandparents lived about five miles southwest of my parents. My Uncle Preston was with them. As they were chatting, they suddenly felt things go deathly quiet. Uncle Preston rushed out to the mailbox. To the northwest, he saw the tornado. He ran back in and told everyone to get in the coal bin. He rushed to the phone to call my dad.

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Double Tornado at Midway Trailer Park, between Elkhart and Goshen, Indiana-April 11, 1965: Paul Huffman for National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration / Public domain

My parents had lived in their house for less than a year. My uncle says he had no idea what their phone number was and couldn’t recite it afterward. But by the grace of God, he remembered it and called Dad.

My parents were at the front door when the phone rang. Dad hesitated for a moment but decided to answer it anyway. After all, this was a time before voicemail and mobile phones. If you missed a call, you had no idea who was trying to reach you.

Dad answered the phone and Uncle Preston told them to take cover. Mom and Dad got into a closet. As they waited and prayed, they could hear the tornado approaching like a mighty freight train.

When it was over, they emerged from the house. There was devastation all around them. A neighboring house was gone.

Today, the tornado they were spared from would be considered an EF-4. That one tornado killed twenty-eight people and injured over 100. It was one of the forty-seven tornadoes that killed 267 people in six states on that Palm Sunday.

You can read about the event at these sites:

Death out of Darkness: 1965 Palm Sunday Tornadoes-Video from the Indiana State Police

My parents lived to see another day. And four months later, I was born. I am thankful for the quick reaction of my uncle, for my parents’ wise choices and their faith as well as the grace God gave that day to my family. Three generations of the Spear family could have been snuffed out that day. I am grateful to be alive today.

This day reminds me it was less than a year ago when the community I now live experienced the Memorial Day Tornadoes. It was a series of tornadoes that affected Indiana as well as Ohio. This time, it was my wife and taking cover when an EF-4 tornado passed south of us. It was a miracle no one was killed in this series of tornadoes. Once again, it is another reason I am grateful to be alive today.

https://www.daytondailynews.com/news/local/tornado-timeline-how-the-record-night-happened/grSz7S2Oe9MNq1Em4OAsaI/

As we remain hunkered down in our houses during a stay-at-home order, I am reminded how precious and fragile life can be. It may get aggravating being in our homes. But we have faced crises before. We can expect COVID-19 to not be our last crisis. I am just thankful for the life I have gotten to live and for one more day to live.

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Worry, the Joy Robber

There is certainly no shortage of things to worry about today. Security of any kind feels like it’s in short supply. What seemed like a sure thing at the beginning of 2020 is a distant memory four months later.

Many of us have time on our hands, thanks to no commuting, travel or group activities. This week would have been busy for my wife and me because, well, it’s the week before Easter. But now, we have plenty of time wondering what we would have been doing if things were out and about.

Worry is counter-productive. It not only robs us of joy, but also creativity, hope, productivity, and well-being. It takes responsibility to improve things out of our hands and puts it in the hands of governments and institutions that are frankly struggling too.

If you find yourself worrying today, turn off the news, start finding some things to be grateful for, and ask what this makes possible. Start envisioning a future where you are on the other side of this crisis and are better for it. We will learn from this season. And remember, it’s only a season. Things will change. They will one day change for the better.

Quote: "Worry never robs tomorrow of its sorrow, it only saps today of its joy." Leo Buscaglia
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Winning, Accomplishment, and Gratitude

When it comes to competition, I haven’t been one to want to get on the podium for everyone to see. Oh, I love to win! I just haven’t been the guy who feels the need to rub it in the other person’s face.

There are things I want to accomplish, and I’m grateful for the opportunities I’ve had in the past as well as today. Gratitude is a way for me to see how much I really am winning. It can be the same for you.

Whenever you can take a moment to be thankful for your family and friends, you are winning. Whenever you see you have reasons to be thankful for food and shelter, it’s a form of victory. Celebrate that you are able to read and think. Be thankful for another day of life. These are all the reasons why you are winning today. Can you just hear Santana singing, I’m Winning just now? Maybe that’s just me.

We may not be the star athlete like the kid in my cartoon. We may find frustrations at school or work that make us wonder when was the last time you could take a victory lap. But every day we can get up and get out there in the world is a reason to celebrate. Just don’t lord it over everybody!

Cartoon of three kids at an Olympic podium. One says, "Do we have to do this every time you win something?"
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Attitude of Gratitude on Turkey Day

My prayer for each one of you this morning is that you find something to be grateful for.

  • Show love to your loved one, even if they have different opinions than yours.
  • Talk about the good memories
  • Talk about the funny times (dancing turkey cartoon anyone?)
  • Be generous with praise and stingy with criticism
  • Tell a loved one something you appreciated about them or something you’ve admired about them

You may have experienced pain and heartache this year. If that is the case, remember the good time too. For no matter how dark the circumstances, there are always rays of light.

On this day, take some time to have an attitude of gratitude.

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Gratitude List

In the USA, Thanksgiving will be tomorrow. Every day is a good day to make a gratitude list. Here are a few things I am grateful for:

  • I have the freedom and the technology to express myself to anyone who wants to read this
  • I grew up in a loving family and am so blessed to carry that tradition to the next generation
    • Great parents that are still living
    • Awesome siblings and their families
    • Great in-laws
    • A wonderful wife
    • Two great kids
  • I have the mind and skill to be able to express my thoughts
  • I live in a time where the comforts of heat and air conditioning are common
  • I can go where I want and travel to see loved ones this week
  • I’ve been blessed with health and the ability to exercise
  • Coffee
  • Chocolate & peanut butter: two of the most wonderful food combos ever!

I’m sure you have a few of your own. Before you head out into the crazy Thanksgiving traffic, make a list of the things you are grateful for today!